Does it matter what religion each of us are or are not?
No. I serve you in a way that brings joy to your day. I've conducted wedding ceremonies where the couples were Catholic/Muslim, Agnostic/Lutheran, Baptist/No Faith, Spiritual/Presbyterian and same sex. I work with the couple to blend the traditions as much as they wish. I am just as comfortable serving you in the manner that helps you live out your own spiritual experience, whether devoutly Christian, Jewish, Muslim, purely spiritual, Agnostic, Atheist or Gay.
Can we have a non-religious wedding ceremony?
This is your choice. . It is your wedding and my goal is to officiate the ceremony that is right for you. You may find that what you desire is in line with what most other couples that come to me desire – without being too "over the top" in terms of religiosity.
Do we have to have Counseling prior to our wedding?
No premarital counseling is necessary and people do not have to share my beliefs in order for me to conduct their ceremony.
Does it matter that either of us have been married before, divorced, or have children?
No. Many of the couples I've married are on their second or third marriage. If there are children involved, I often include them in a Hand Ceremony. They are recognized if you wish.
Can we write our own vows or make changes to your basic wedding ceremony?
Absolutely! I encourage you to personalize your ceremony as much as you wish.
What do you wear when officiating weddings?
I wear a Robe
What are your fees for officiating a wedding ceremony?
My ceremony officiating fees start at $100.00. There may be additional fees for travel as well, depending on where your wedding ceremony will be held
How is the booking of my wedding handled?
You are booked when you decide the date and time and request me to perform the ceremony. I do not ask for any money until the date of the wedding or rehearsal
If you have to change the date or time call or Text me at 413-210-6028 please don't let me go to the wedding site and wait until I realize your not coming. That's why I use texting because people feel bad about calling me to change or cancel the date.
Can we pay the entire balance when we book to get it out of the way?
Yes. If you would like to. Please send a Check to;
A Little Wedding Chapel 256 Maple Street, Holyoke, MA 01040
Make it payable to Margie Hersh
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How far in advance should I confirm a wedding officiant?
The sooner the better. Sometimes I am booked a year in advance, so do not delay!
What about last minute requests?
If I have room in my schedule, I will be happy to accommodate you. I have done many weddings on spur of the moment notice, and we were able to work through the details without any difficulties and have a wonderful ceremony. Call me as soon as you can and I will do my best to fit you in.
Do we need a marriage license?
If it is your first wedding Ceremony and not a Renewal or Commitment Ceremony, yes, you must get a wedding license. In Massachusetts there is a 3 day wait period and the day you apply does not count as a day. In Connecticut there is no wait period you get your license as soon as you apply
Do you perform same sex marriages in your chapel or at a site we pick?
Absolutely, I do not discriminate against same sex, different religions, people of color or race I believe that if you love each other you should have the same privileges as everyone else. Your wedding will be meaningful, romantic and beautiful
Can I get married if I am from another country?
As long as you have a Passport from your country that is all you need to show the City Clerk and you will receive your marriage license in Massachusetts and Connecticut
Can I change my last name to my wife's?
Absolutely! You choose the last name that you want to take.
How long is a license good for?
A marriage license is good for 60 days
How long have you been performing weddings?
I started performing weddings in 1996. Since that time I have performed over 1,000 wedding ceremonies.
In your price package I see you are also a wedding planner how involved do you get in the planning process?
From picking a date and considering venues to the last moments of your reception’s after-party we will make the time spent coordinating your wedding enjoyable and memorable. The months leading up to your wedding will be a whirlwind of activity that you remember for the rest of your life. The sheer stress of coordinating a do-it-yourself wedding can fracture relationships with enlisted friends or family members at a time when you ought to feel closest with those you love. We make sure that your wedding day stays centered on a celebration of your love, ensure that every detail is in place, and take care of any unexpected issues, letting you focus on enjoying the grace and beauty of your big day.
Two packages to pick from
The one day planning package; I will take one day and help you get started on your way to planning your wedding. We will discuss budget, your reception, wedding ceremony, limo, flowers, honeymoon, gown, etc. everything that has to do with the wedding. I can give you suggestions, a print out of what to do each month so when you leave the office you will know what you have to do in order to plan your wedding
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The entire planning package; I will help you plan the entire wedding. I will go with you to appointments, ask the right questions, help you make tough decisions, be with you through the entire process. It will be a stress free wedding. I will take away all the burdon of the ceremony, reception, vendors, guests, appointments and phone calls. From the day that we meet I will take care of everything that needs to be handled.
Which ever package you choose we will help you with the most important day of your life
How do I know where your next destination renewal wedding is and where have you gone?
We have performed weddings in Freeport Bahamas, Kings Dwarf, Bermuda, Egg Harbour, NJ, Bethany Beach, DE, We do destination renewal weddings on ever odd year. You can call us or watch our website for information to our next destination renewal wedding. If you would like to renew your vows and would like to have it in a faraway destination let us know and we can put your name on our list. Yes we go to the destination with you and perform the renewal. If you have always wanted to renew your vows come along and have that romantic experiance.
